"Pay attention," she whispered.
But it was impossible not to pay attention. However, gently and delicately, her fingers had probed to the very quick of his consciousness. And how intensely alive, he now noticed, those fingers were! What a strange tingling warmth flowed out of them!
"It's like an electric current," he marveled.
"But luckily," she said, "the wires carry no messages. One touches and, in the act of touching, one's touched. Complete communication, but nothing communicated. Just an exchange of life, that's all."

[found at story time]

i love that. an exchange of life.

somehow i have found myself in conversations regarding cuddle parties[!], snuggling, touching, and hugging [or non-hugging] during the past week or so. if this sounds at all familiar, it is because i have blathered on about this before here and here. and if you note the dates, apparently i have the need to talk about this nearly annually? anyway. if you search oxytocin+hug you will find all sorts of fun stuff regarding the power of touch, which i find very interesting [i particularly enjoy this post, also at story time]. one of the artlcles starts off like this, though:

"Between loving partners, between parents and children, or even between close friends, physical affection can help the brain, the heart and other body systems you might never have imagined."

okay. so the word "even" there? before the bit about close friends? irritates me to no end. like, omg, wow, can you EVEN IMAGINE? friends? showing physical affection? THE WORLD HAS GONE TOPSY-TURVY. BRING ME A DRINK.

it seems there is a very large chasm between childhood and dating/marriage where affection is somehow out of bounds. as a single woman in her late twenties, you can imagine this may be a little frustrating. what, just because i'm not married or dating i should be denied physical affection? it's healthy, you know! frankly, i'm glad i am a woman and that i can feel a little more free in the touchy-feely-ness area without society totally weirding out on me. although nowadays there are raised eyebrows at two women showing affection, too... sigh.

anyway, i started this thinking that i had some sort of point but am pretty sure i lost it somewhere along the way. it's a shame, too, because i think it was going to be awesome. for now i'll just say that hugs are physically, scientifically, and emotionally awesome, and that if you know me well... you know where to find one.

[in other news, apparently i cannot justify alignment in my entries anymore? rawr.]